I'm cm tall, 49 kg weigh. I am a government oifficial. She will bide her time and work the long con.
Guys… Any girl in the bar and club scene is trouble everywhere in the world. Stay away from these girls if you want a relationship! If she regularly drinks or parties, very bad news…. I run day game in Thailand and go to shopping centres and get numbers.
These women are the for a relationship!! Very innocent and are good girls!! Bad idea to bring her back to the west cause Feminism is mainstream and toxic for their innocent soul!
Nice comment Paul, I think perhaps the smartest one on this thread. If you must have a Thai partner, pick one with the same or higher education than yourself. Not like go to supermarket…. This is a good topic to read. I have a Thai gf for the last 6 months I am in Canada. Another Angry American women with a chip on her shoulders. Very passive aggressive, no one here was asking for her opinion. The women had no blame. October 15th, in Thai Girls. Let me start by saying: Do Thai Women Like to Lie?
Where To Do It. Best Thai Dating Site. Notify of new replies to this comment - on. Notify of new replies to this comment - off. I am Thai woman and i have read what foreigner think about Thai women. Most i read say bad things about Thai women, I have to say bad experience of you guys got in Thailand about Thai women because you come here and go to nightlife at bar girls.
Maybe you fall in love with bar girls? First of all, the western farang you see does not represent the western men. And this farang is substantially off from normal distribution of population. Just like most Thai man marry with Thai women and raise families, so do the westerners. Keep in mind that the westerners you see in Thai are not the median or average westerners. I personally know so many cases of these farangs go east to find women, a lot of cases.
My coworkers, friends of friends, etc. I am an American man, 65 now. Have been living in Thailand for the most of 10 years. Although I still have a home in America. Women in America are just plain hard to get to know, and the time I have to put into it is not worth it. I am fit and have the funds to live a life in America.
But, it is just a pain in the ass for me. Keep your wits about you, and South East Asia can be a very nice and rewarding experience. I had an occasion which needed an immigration lawyer. He told me how clever the women from SE Asia, especially from the island.
They have their social network to exchange information about how to seduce the old farts from the west and how to take advantage of the rules and regulations of host countries once they land on the coast of the western countries. I would exspecially warn you of Philippina women. Hi guys, Sorry for the long post in advance! I desperately need some advice. I just came back from my trip in Thailand, and like a little research machine I am, before my trip I read a lot of articles here btw good job, a lot of good info here and got informed well for my trip there.
Hi Tinman, I really feel with you and i understand you and this sounds like a very complicated situation. All i can tell you is that im in a similar situation and i also dont know when i will go back to thailand. My plan now is to stay in contact with her but at the same time just live my regular daily life. I think if you two manage to stay in touch regularly for a longer period you will see if its worth going back and taking a chance with her.
I hope this helps you. Why was she alone at Iluzion when you met? Sounds like a freelancer. To my knowledge I have lived in Thailand 1 year Thai-girls lives in the moment and she could easily meet someone else in Phi Phi. How old are you? If your about the same age I think she really likes you, but you should facetime a lot to get to know her. If it feels right, go there for a longer period, maybe 2 months. I had that experience too. Beautiful and so so cute.
Living in Asia as a German, divorced a girl from Borneo. Met a few girls in Thailand. This particular one was so sweet. Paid her off, went shopping for my daughter, bought a few pieces for this girl too, cinema, Japanese dinner, went back to my apartment and just slept. Next morning woke up and ate her only cos I ran out of rubbers. We kissed and parted and I promised to see her again. Hi Tinman I have been through this exactly kinda situation 5 years ago.
It is not for real, expect her to ask you take care of her. In the meantime she might talk to other guys as well, god knows how many. I am not saying all Thai girls are bad , not at all. But they cannot love at the distance , they think life is too short to wait too long. They want fun right now. I would like some advice if you could be so kind. As a first time visitor to Bangkok I spoke with my tour guide who was 28 and I am 39 and asked her out to eat after the tour.
She accepted and we met and had a nice time out, no sex. The next night after her work we went out to eat and had sex on the second night and she spent the night in my hotel. We then continued to meet each night I was there and went out to eat at different places. Hi Nancy, I am married a thai lady and can tell you that the thai culture has been more worthy than western has ever been till the western people and companies have taken control of all natural resources and make thai people like foreigners in Thailand.
I am from Bulgaria and ame.. Who creates 1st world, 2nd and 3rd? Thai women are the best in the world and you need to talk to them and make clear the important details before big step. Hi I am dating a Thai woman who works as a property agent. She is giving me many mix signals. She is saying she is keen to focus on her career and that she wants to know me slowly. We get by everyday with text and LINE and nightly video calls.
Spend weekends on outing and a weekday meeting. She is from Issan and she claims that she is very conservative and want to get the next relationship right — failed with 3 foreign bfs and the last was a Thai man who 2 timed her. She is always saying — my life is just normal, nothing special to talk about. She is from southern part of Thailand and lives in Bangkok alone for few years.
Hello again, She is always cleaning my apartment and offering to do my loundry! We do talk every day! Another type of party girl is one that actually loves to party. These Thai girls will go out times a week, get drunk and probably know a lot of guys.
While this type of women is great for a short fling, she is not girlfriend material. I have read your blog about my country. I went to Thailand last month and I met pretty Thai woman.
They are all nice and very accommodating. I really enjoyed my stay in Thailand for three weeks. Agree was there right at MBK mall, the woman are so accommodating and nice would love to visit again.. Well i just got through spending a month in Bangkok and have been to both to MBK center and a myriad of other malls downtown as well as a plethora of markets and lumpini park.
I found a very best place was along the SkyTrain or bts. Also at bus stops in on the street. I found that most of them were at a table or with a group of Thai friends and would be very difficult to approach and usually with that date. After dating sites, the highest ratio of hot girls will be in night clubs. Which club did you go too? First time I have ever heard a guy say this.
Interesting places in Thailand. Definitely will check it out the next time I have been there. University Can meet them at library, cafeteria, football court, Campus street. I have a Thai gf who has a decent job and very self sufficient.
Thai women are attractive. However, many of them willing to date with foreigners are gold diggers. My friends and I both had a bad experience dating with a thai girl. It really hurts my feelings. S dollars for his marriage proposal, and that was when he had already spent 1oooo U.
People would think it was his own fault to be such an naive guy. Well he had a crush on the girl and he was only 25 at the time. Looks like you just got played as most Thai girls would not do anything like that. Harvie, I like your blog. I spent 3 years teaching in Thailand and started with a Thai prostitute which was a big mistake. Later, found a working Thai woman who did everything for me but cook. Would your sister be interested in a mature, well-educated, polite and caring gentleman from Canada?
I am of mixed South Asian-Greek origin, considered good-looking. My husband cheated on me. He went to Thailand to fuck these thai women. I hate Thailand and all the thai woman. You hate Thai people for something your husband did? I think that is a little cruel to Thai people after all your husband was the one who cheated on you. He probably did not say anything to the Thai women about being married to you. I am an American guy and have a Cambodian girlfriend and cheating on her never comes to my mind as I know no other women can please me like she can.
Well, not to excuse him, but are you a loving, clean, good hearted wife that knows some Kama sutra? I am going back to Thailand in February for the third time for four weeks.
I love Thai people, both male and female generally. I really would love to meet an inteligent mature lady who can converse in English. For the purpose of this section, we will focus on 4 geographical regions of Thailand — North, East, Central and Southern Thailand. This is because the women native to these regions tend to have distinct physical traits. It might be difficult to tell the subtle differences between the women from these regions at first glance.
But trust me, by the end of this section you will also be able to tell the difference between them. A large section of the population here have full or partial Chinese ancestry — particularly Han Chinese. So you can expect women from this region to have a strong Chinese influence as far as their physical appearance is concerned. Ploy Pattrakorn Tungsupakul, actress. I know some men choose to date Thai girls because they are petite, so I am telling you — if you like this quality in women, Thai Northern women are perfect for you!
Because the eastern part of Thailand is connected to Laos, women here will look pretty similar to Laos women but yet there are still some differences. Women from Eastern parts of Thailand especially from places like Issan are by far the most popular, most attractive to many.
Women from Central regions of Thailand are truly the sweethearts of the country. Their sweet looks have nothing to compare with. And of course their beautiful golden tanned skin. Women here have a reputation as the hottest women in this country. They are beautiful and very unique as well. All these features are what make women from the south of Thailand a total envy for the rest of the women in the country, specifically their eyes and their noses.
Women from Northern regions of Thailand women cutest, Those from the East are the sexiest, and those from the Central and Southern regions are the hottest. Apart from their looks, there are plenty of reasons to date a Thai woman. With the explosion of internet and Thai singles apps, it has now become easier than ever to find a woman via online dating in Thailand.
But finding one and finding the right one are two very different things. You can easily find a date but after the first meeting will she be the one that you stay with or will she be like one of those Bar Girls you have heard about in Thailand that only wants you for your money? There is no doubt that these GoGo girls exist but are all Thai girls the same?
Is the Thai girl you meet going to be a real girlfriend or is she going to be a Walking Street professional and take you for everything she can get from you? A lot of these girls come from very poor areas like Issan and move to Phuket or Pattaya to make a living in the bar industry.
They usually find jobs working as a bar girl in what a called as Gogo bars. They do it in the hope that one day they will meet their White Knight and break free from the game to go on to live a happy life. What we are about to show you is everything you will need to spot the gold diggers and opportunists. We will show you how to not only find a Thai girl but how to find a decent Thai girl and hopefully make her your girlfriend and possibly Thai wife all going well.
Dating Thai girls is really easy. We have an entire post dedicated for you so you can steal her heart on your very first date. So I strongly recommend you read through the linked article because the rules of engagement when dating a good girl in Thailand are vastly different from what you might be used to back home. There is a reason why so many men have come to like them and refuse to go back to dating women in their own country.
Many of these experiences can be very spiritual and your Thai partner will be there right beside you, helping you at every turn. If anything, they only had praises for having found a new, happy and an exceptionally satisfied life when it comes to physical intimacy with their partners. Do a Google search to find people complaining about an unsatisfactory sex life with a Thai woman.
What you will see are numerous sex related stories but none of them will mention a poor sex life. Food in Thailand can only be described with one word: Imagine all these different flavours delightfully blending into your mouth in one jaw-dropping moment.
Almost all them know how to cook food! Now that deserves one more awesome. Different regions have their own take on food and you will get very different culinary experiences in for example Issan to those in Bangkok. Issan food is definitely an acquired taste and contains lots of raw shell fish and extreme spices. Suffice to say, Thailand should definitely be on your go-to list if you want to have a good time and find yourself a beautiful woman that will get your vibe.
As you may already know, Thailand is naturally a beautiful country with a lot of naturally beautiful women in it. The Pattaya nightlife is definitely not for the weak or the faint hearted and can ruin a man very quickly if he is not careful. Beyond all the glitz and the glamour of Thai nightclubs and bars lies a very deep social circle that can only be penetrated by the elite few.
Apart from the fact that many Thai girls are extremely beautiful with their smooth skin and deep brown eyes, and their amazing personality and attitude, there are many reasons why men from the west go all the way across the world just to date a Thai. She definitely knows how to take care of her man , believe me, I know! The girlfriend or wife nagging us about the smallest things and how we should be spending more time with them even though we do our best to do so.
Fortunately, they are very receptive and rarely nag their boyfriends about little things! Thai women know that pushing the wrong buttons can usually result in bad relationships so they know when to let things be.
These women are definitely a plus on this one. Most live out a kind of fantasy life through Facebook or other social media. With the explosion of the internet and smart phones the dream is far more prevalent now than ever before but most will come to realise that they will never get closer than the screen in front of their eyes so when they do eventually get the opportunity to travel with a new man in their life she will adapt very quickly.
Now I understand if some of you might think this is lame, and to be honest, to some extent it is. The little things we take for granted in our everyday lives to some, they can be a source of wonder and awe. Take for example a simple little thing like snow. The first time my Thai girlfriend saw snow she was literally speechless. She rolled around in it for ages and played snowball fights for hours. That kind of childlike wonder and awe is endearing and even made me feel young again. Most of these girls have never even travelled off the mainland to the islands like Phuket so imagine the sheer awe and amazement of getting on a plane to travel around the world.
Thailand is home to one of the biggest Transvestite population in the world. And no discussion on this topic would be complete without a mention of Ladyboys or Kathoey as they are called locally.
Now a word of warning. Never call a ladyboy a Kathoey to her face. Whatever the reason, I hope this section helps you understand more about Thai ladyboys. Thailand has some of the best transsexual doctors in the world and transgender surgery costs in Thailand are some of the lowest in the world. This is a big reason why many pre op ladyboys move to Thailand in order to get sexual reassignment surgery.
In fact, quite a few people actually look for ladyboys rather than women that are naturally born a physical woman! Ignore at your own peril. I can tell you from experience that Thai girls can have a bad side too, like anywhere else in the world! Some women have found out that the best way to make a lot of money is by dating foreigners on online dating sites and by fooling them into a relationship where the guy gives them money all the time to make them happy.
Here are a few excellent ways on spotting scammers and gold diggers whose only intention is to part you with your money. Which is a logical and realistic trait.
After all, in a long term relationship, there are bound to be ups and downs, and money can be a cushion to some degree. So while someone who genuinely loves you will value you more than anything else, a gold digger will value your ability to provide for her more than anything else.
And a good person will appreciate your financial resources as well as your relationship. However, a gold digger will appreciate only your financial resources. Such a person will likely leave you for greener pastures as soon as your ability to provide for them with a lavish lifestyle stops. This is pretty self-explanatory. Money is usually the subject at hand.
They usually demand and command you to buy high priced bags, gadgets and other glamorous items for them. There are different types of scam artists working the naïve foreigners on holiday in Thailand. The experienced scammer might fool you by talking about your hobbies and the things that interest you. She will bide her time and work the long con.
Eventually, though the conversation will lead to them asking you for money. It will happen subtly and usually target your heart strings before it targets your wallet. It will feel like its random and unplanned but these conversations are far from unplanned. These girls have the patience of a surgeon and the skills to cut deep into your heart. A vast majority of them are just there for the free ride and make no mistake they have no intention of being your loving girlfriend.
The chances are they have 10 more guys just like you on speed dial and when the free ride is over you get deleted and they move on to be another victims problem. These girls never have a problem finding a date and can transform from Bar girl to GoGo dancer to goody goody Thai girlfriend in the blink of an eye. This is not to say that you should never date a girl from a poor family, but you should definitely be careful when doing so because there is a definite difference between a girl who looks toward the future by dating a man who can support himself and a family if need be and a girl who just wants some cash right up front.
This particular type of gold digger can be hard to spot because some sincere girls really do have family problems and some of them might come to you for some financial assistance. Gold diggers usually create sob stories that often trick foreigners into giving them their money because someone in their family is sick or dying or their cousin needs some money to go to school.
Another set of girls you want to avoid are those who are extremely eager to marry you for the sole purpose of settling in a foreign country and getting a foreign visa. If you read stories of Thai girls and the games they play you will invariably see a reference to a sick buffalo. The following is taken from a mixture of many stories over the years. This email is a combination of many stories handed down by Falangs as a warning put in a humorous way.
I love you and I miss you too much. My friend in bar say you old man look same same monkey but I know you very hansum man.
I have many problem I write you before that buffalo me sick. Now it die Fall down and dead in middle rice field. Bad fortune when it fall it fall on papa and break he leg in many place. Now he not work. Brother me make stretcher bamboo he take from roof house. Roof come down and rain in house. He take papa to hospital motorcycle.
Have big accident when he come home hit police car. Police say brother me blame. Police say he mudt pay big money. Bad luck make Mama heart problem. Doctor say she must triple by-pass. I no understand but brother say you understand. You know darling I only work in bar as cashier and not go with man I wait for you come back Bangkok but if you no help me I think I hab to go with man for pay bills.
Old people my village say you responsible. Please send me , baht for my bank. Papa fix 10, new roof 30,, new police car ,, mama fix 50, I take off 2, baht for sell buffalo meat but me have to pay more hospital bill for 24 people have problem eat contaminated meat 12, baht. I not know money England but brother me say me it This means you send me 10, your pound.
Gold diggers, however, usually try to rush you into meeting their family as soon as they can and then try to trap you by wanting to get married to you immediately.
Be wary if you start to notice how impatient your girl is about meeting your family. Such a relationship is unlikely to work out in the long run. When it comes to Bar girls the first thing that pops into a Westerners mind is usually the pretty waitress that brings them a drink in the local pub or the girl that takes the money from them at the counter. Now ask a Westerner that has either been to Thailand or plans to go to Thailand what a Bargirl is and you will get a whole different vision popping into their head.
Well let me put it to you like this, Have you ever lived in or visited the United States? In the States, you will find many words that differ dramatically from those of their European friends. For example the word fanny. Now in somewhere like England, the word fanny means your baby maker or to use the clinical term, Vagina. Alternatively, they can also help you to the bedroom in the bar called a short time room I will elaborate on that term soon.
These girls sell themselves for money. Their main goal in the bar is to make you spend as much money as possible on drinks for them called lady drinks and drinks for anyone else they can get you to pay for.
After that, the next goal is to get even more cash from you by bringing you up to the short time room which is a small usually dimly lit basic room with a bed and a shower. They work in GoGo bars and girly bars all over Thailand.
Now believe it or not the art of Prostitution is actually illegal in Thailand but in all the years that the business has been operating I have never heard of a single non-Thai Falang or Farang as they like to call them ever being arrested or even bothered by the Thai Police. I guess the most logical or cynical reason for this is it just makes the country far too much money.
So back to the girls. Start with a big one! A common nick name for a Falang, Farang is A. As the girls in the bars know that they can push the right buttons and get all the cash they need. You want one girl, two girls or a whole harem as long as you can pay you can have it all.
These girls will love and treat you great but beware…….. Once the money runs out usually so do the girls. Sometimes it can leave a guy feeling angry or perplexed.
I mean they just had sex with this girl so there is a special bond now. Maybe he feels the little butterflies in his stomach and hears wedding bells because he has never been treated so well by a woman before. This girl will even cut his toe nails if he asked so it definitely had to be true love. They are for the most part very loveable, funny and misunderstood women. Most are just poor girls usually from Issan or Udon Thani with no prospects for a better life.
The game chooses them. The sad facts where uneducated girls are concerned are that if they are lucky enough to be pretty then they can either work on the farm or work as a prostitute. Given the option of getting filthy dirty, being hot and poor with no prospects of ever finding a good man can you blame these girls for playing the game?
The long-term goal for these girls is to meet that white knight, the man that will take them away from all this and provide them with a comfortable life away from it all. They are cunning, they are smart and most of all they are survivors. They will do what it takes to get what they want and sometimes like the long con in your favourite heist movie this can be played out for months or even years. They have all day every day to plan the next move and more often than not have more than one prospect on the line.
These girls only need to be your girl for an hour a day for maybe 2 weeks in the year and for the other 50 weeks, they work their magic on numerous guys in exactly the same situation as you. In some scenarios, you can be lucky enough to actually become the one and contrary to public opinion there are many happily married women that have worked as bar girls and even more from bars that are in solid stable relationships with men that they have met on the job. Jealousy is one of the main problems that face a couple that try to make a go of things under these circumstances.
These are the stories you hear about because some men would rather look like another victim to the terrible Thai girls than having to admit to himself that he is not the understanding and rational guy he thought he was. After all Thailand is the place synonymous with seedy underground massage parlours and girly bars full of sexy Thai girls who are more than eager to please you. A place where anyone can buy anything as long as they have a full wallet and an empty heart.
The women are easy and any guy with the budget of a two-week millionaire can pull any woman they want regardless of what he looks like. Well yes and no. Thailand does have that side to it but then again so does Amsterdam or Las Vegas. In fact when you look deeply enough most countries in the world have their own little red light district. The Dollar was King and you could live like Julius Caesar for a few weeks on a relatively small budget.
Gone are the days where lads hopped the plane for a 3-hour flight to Ibiza or Tenerife. Gone are the weekend trips to Amsterdam for a stag night. A few years ago as you stepped off your flight at Bangkok Airport hoping to meet beautiful Thai girls all you would see would be an ocean of balding middle aged pot-bellied men wearing socks and sandals and sporting the latest designs in sleeveless vests.
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